If you live a Christian life, love is not an option. It is commanded and, it’s a command we can find tough to follow. To love others as we would want to be loved (Matthew 22:39) runs contrary to our natural human inclinations and sometimes feels to be impossible to achieve – that being, we should get up each morning and feel as much concern for others’ needs as our own. Caring for others as we would want to be cared for is hard, indeed, and we may feel hopeless to live it o